Thank You For Leaving Me
by Tom Cronin on June 15, 2012
•
  "We can allow endings to be sacred."  
I feel these 7 words really capture the true essence of Farhana Dhalla's teachings. She is a leading life coach, mentor and author on empowerment within relationships. Her recent book "Thank You For Leaving Me" assists the reader through those difficult periods of relationship break-ups by guiding them from a space of suffering, bitterness and hurt into power and gratitude. As she says "these experiences didn't happen to me, they happened FOR me". With this slight adjustment of our mental thoughts forms we completely transform how we relate to the ending of a relationship. Rather than being a victim and revelling in the suffering that comes from separation, we awaken the power within us and are able to embrace the relevance of what occurred. To find out more about this amazing woman please check out her web site and watch this candid interview with her on you tube. Many of us will go through a marriage break up or relationship that dissolves. These have the potential to cause a lot of pain and long term scarring that limit our ability to flourish in our next relationship or to even be a fuller version of ourself. We harbour resentment, anger, bitterness or jealousy. These are dark negative energies that store in our body. Farhana Dhalla, a leading coach, mentor and author on relationships has a powerful book out called "Thank You For Leaving Me" which provides us with a very different view on how to not only cope, but to become empowered through the break up of relationships....read more on her website.
  • http://www.shelleystreitinc.com Shelley Streit

    Thank you for this message. The release has brougfht me closer to the top but Idid not recognize it until now after watching this. I love you and your eloquent ways.

  • http://www.simpleeserene.com Lee Horbachewski (@SimpLee_Serene)

    As always I was mesmerized by Farhana’s wisdom, her eloquence and beauty. This is a truly divine share – thank you for gracing your page with one of the most amazing women I have the blessing to know.

  • http://www.innerguideempowerment.com Jeri Tourand

    Mmmm…I so resonate with your words Farhana!! Thanks for sharing the exciting experiences that have happened FOR you so that we may all benefit. :) I agree whole-heartedly!! I too often catch myself wanting to say “Congratulations!!” or “How exciting!” when people are fired from their jobs, or are going through other major changes and new experiences :)
    Much Love and Light,
    Jeri

  • http://www.FarhanaDhalla.com Farhana Dhalla

    Shelley, Lee and Jeri – thank you for hearing this with your heart. Our brain will rationalize many things but when we hear with our heart, we KNOW things even when evidence doesn’t support it. Much love to you all. Farhana

  • http://www.themillionairewoman.com Debra Kasowski

    Beautiful words to explain how endings are new beginnings and to be celebrated. Thank you for – BEING!!!